The “Ber” Months in the Philippines: Where Christmas Lasts Four Months
If you’ve just arrived in the Philippines, you might be surprised when September rolls in and suddenly… It feels like Christmas. Yes, here the holiday season doesn’t just start in December, it stretches for four whole months! From September to December (the “ber” months), the country transforms into one big festive celebration filled with lights, music, food, and family traditions.
When the Music Starts, the Season Begins
Step into any shopping mall in September, and you’ll be greeted by Christmas carols, most likely sung by Jose Mari Chan, the beloved crooner whose voice is practically the anthem of the season. Decorations go up early, and the countdown to Christmas becomes a daily backdrop to life. For newcomers, it’s a mix of wonder, delight, and just a hint of disbelief.
Filipino Traditions You’ll Encounter
Mano Po – Respect and Blessings
During family visits, you’ll often see children greeting elders by taking their hand and placing it gently on their forehead, saying “Mano po.” This simple gesture of respect and receiving blessings is especially cherished during holiday reunions.
One of the most striking sights during the “ber” months are the colorful parol’s , star-shaped lanterns that symbolize the Star of Bethlehem. From traditional bamboo and paper designs to elaborate electric displays, they brighten streets and homes with a glow of hope and unity.
Monito Monita – The Filipino Secret Santa
Gift-giving takes a playful twist with Monito Monita, the local version of Secret Santa. Instead of a one-time exchange, small gifts are given over several weeks, often with fun themes like “something sweet” or “something funny.” It’s a lighthearted way to build anticipation and laughter leading up to Christmas.
Noche Buena – The Heart of Christmas
In the Philippines, Christmas Eve is the main event. After midnight mass (Misa de Gallo), families gather for Noche Buena, a feast that often includes lechon (roast pig), ham, queso de bola, spaghetti, and countless family favorites. More than a meal, it’s a moment of togetherness—stories shared, laughter ringing, and plates piled high until the early hours.
Joy, Chaos, and Community Spirit
The “ber” months also mean:
• Heavy traffic (plan ahead—it’s legendary).
• Crowded malls (Filipinos love shopping for thoughtful gifts).
• Carolers at your doorstep, from choirs to cheerful kids.
• Non-stop gatherings with colleagues, neighbors, and extended family.
It can feel overwhelming at first, but it’s also where the magic lies: community, generosity, and joy everywhere you turn.
Why You’ll Love It as an Expat
For those relocating to the Philippines, the “ber” months are an unforgettable introduction to the country’s warmth and culture. You’ll quickly see that here, Christmas isn’t just a holiday, it’s a celebration of family, faith, and fun that defines the season, Get help from Relocate and Thrive to make your life easier during the Ber months in the Philippines.
So get ready to embrace the world’s longest Christmas. Between the lights of the parol, the laughter of Monito Monita, and the feast of Noche Buena, you’ll discover that in the Philippines, Christmas is more than a season, it’s a way of life.